remember, your ego is your worst enemy. it will tell you things like “you can’t get out of debt” “you will never buy a house” or “you are not worthy of wealth” AND guess what, that’s just not true.
so how does one over come the ego? when insecurities creep in take a deep breathe, realize your ego is talking, start saying to yourself “this is not a reality, this is an insecurity” and mentally list things that are actually true.
this can include things such as “yes, i’m in debt RIGHT now but i’m taking steps to get out of it.”
you ARE worth it and you WILL be able to get out of debt if and only if you conquer your insecurities.
after a lot (and seriously, i mean a lot because my last real post was in july) of planning here is my game plan:
will regroup next week to let you know how week 1 goes. wish me luck!
ps: i haven’t written on her since july because i’m partially ashamed that i’m not debt free yet. i have recently had an epiphany: a life with debt is not one to be embarrassed about. it’s a day to day journey and one day (soon) my net worth will be a positive number rather than a negative one.
oh em gee, it’s july. the half way mark in the year.
it’s also my birthday month. so normally i take this time to reflect and regroup.
as i look back on my new year resolutions i laugh. they were so ambitious and unrealistic. as i turn twenty.eight. (eek) the sense of urgency to “get my shit together” is mounting. because let’s get real, being broke and thirty is not a good look.
aside from being debt free, twenty.eight. is going to be the year i start my passion project, aka my etsy shop. the shop will center around something i learned to make from my grandmother: tote bags.
i am so proud of myself, last night i cut the fabric, and started my sewing machine. only to find out that the thread i bought was too fragile for my machine! usually i take setbacks as “signs” but not this time. i instantly went on amazon prime and bought thread. i’ll report back later this week on how the project is going.
in the meantime, what is your passion project? i’d love to hear some of your hopes/dreams so please share with me: firstname.lastname@example.org.
on yesterdays brief post, i touched base on my shopping relapse…oops. on a positive note, the credit card i paid off a couple of months ago has NOT been used, phew. however, i’ve been over compensating by using other credit cards, oops.
set backs are a common occurrence in my life. i always seem to be very ambitious about something in the beginning and then things dissipate when i realize all the hard work that goes into getting results. prime examples include my debt and nutrition habits.
i have been yo yo-ing with both for years. they go through waves. these highs and lows have effected my confidence, result efforts and overall mental/physical health. it’s easy for me to say “i’ll get back on the horse” but the reality is i already map out my failures…yes, even when i’m in the process of writing and thinking about my new game plan.
i cam across a great article by Nikki Novo, that discusses thought patterns. she emphasized the power of regrouping. however, you can’t regroup without a healthy mindset and saying/believing/thinking “i believe” those two words are magic. so here goes to another start, another day 1.
i believe i can…
step 1, complete. onto step 2…